Hi. I’m Ms. X, (sounds like old school right? Honestly i prefer it this way coz i wanna stay anonymous for obvious reasons😉)the woman behind UnfilteredHer.
I’m a 90s girl who grew up believing that life would somehow make sense once I became an adult.
Plot twist: it didn’t. 😄
I’m still figuring things out.
Some days I have everything together. Other days, I’m sitting with a cup of coffee, staring into absolutely nothing, wondering when life became this complicated.
And honestly?
I’ve started to like the woman somewhere in between.
I created UnfilteredHer because I wanted a little corner of the internet where I could simply be myself — without having to make everything sound perfect, look perfect or feel perfectly put together.
Here, I write about life, love, marriage, womanhood, travel, home, food, dreams, disappointments, little joys and the thoughts that usually stay inside my head.
Some stories will be funny.
Some will be messy.
Some will be deeply personal.
And some might make you think, “Oh… so I'm not the only one.”
I’m a wife, a daughter, a friend, a dreamer, a worrier, an overthinker and a good cook😎and occasionally a woman who just wants five minutes of complete silence. ☕️
I love the little things — a clean home, freshly changed bedsheets, Scented Candles and a good meal, a quiet morning, a beautiful place, a meaningful conversation and those random moments that somehow become memories.
I also believe that the version of ourselves we become at 30, 35 or 40 doesn't have to resemble the girl we once were.
We are allowed to change.
To start again.
To want more.
To want less.
To lose ourselves for a while and find our way back.
So this isn't a blog about having life figured out.
It's about living it while figuring it out.
Unfiltered.
Imperfect.
A little chaotic.
And completely, unapologetically her.
Welcome to my little corner of the internet. 🤍
Stay awhile.
Read something.
Tell me your story.
And maybe, somewhere between my words and yours, we'll realise we're not so different after all.
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